sensitive jerk

i went down for lunch and was looking around for food when i saw this couple behind the kfc counter. the guy was rugged from head to toe..not really handsome but pwede na. the girl on the other hand was striking, long black hair..model thin..great bone structure on her face. what caught my attention is that, theyre completely opposite.. women these days dont go for the clean cut guys. the more roguish looking you are..the yummier! however, you will get exasperated trying to figure us out. one minute we relegate guys for a friend status and go for a complete brute the next we come crying to you that we just want a nice guy. psycho?? not quite hehe. The reason why even the sweetest of women gravitate toward the jerk at one point or another is because he exhibits certain qualities that appeal to women universally. Sane women are not ball-busters by nature and want a man who has a backbone and displays a healthy amount of testosterone. We can't help but be drawn to the jerk's confidence and the fact that he doesn't let people walk all over him or tell him what to do. So we end up not knowing what happened and we look for the the antithesis: NICE GUYS. after the holy mess, a nice guy is appealing..but not for long. after he mends her broken heart he starts watching chick flicks, shops with you, never says no and is more like a puppy. who would want another girlfriend?? i dont!! Hence the confusing conundrum. So which is it? What do women want? We want the best of both worlds. Call it a nice jerk if you will, but I prefer the sensitive bastard he he. its a thin line between being good and bad. bad ..you smoke..you get in a fight with your friends in a bar..drinks like an elephant etc. Good in a sense that.. you love your siblings..you check up on your mom once in awhile..you`d kill for your family. To make women interested in you and only you is to be sensitive while retaining your masculinity. Know when to be kind and understanding, and when to stick to your guns, so to speak. The key is to avoid both extremes of the nice guy and the jerk. Don't be at her beck and call, but be there for her when she needs you most. Don't ever let her think that she can tell you what to wear, eat, think, or say, but listen to and respect her opinion. You get the idea?? This way she knows that you love her but she cant jump down in your throat. Can you give us the best of both worlds??